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Wednesday, March 30, 2005


<>Just to share what I happen to read..

Why do we have to part while the love is still there?
Why do we have to suffer?
Why do we have to cry when somebody bids goodbye?
Why do beginnings have an end?
Why do we have to meet only to lose in the end?<>

There are questions left unanswered, words left unsaid, letters left unread, poems left undone, songs left unsung, love left unexpressed, promises left unfulfilled.


In a relationship, one of the hardest things to do is saying goodbye and letting go. It is as hard as breaking a crystal because you'll never know when you will be able to pick up the pieces again.

More often than not, they who go, feel not the pain of parting: it is they who stay behind that suffer, because they are left with memories of a love that was meant to be, a love that was.

A
t the beginning and at the end of a relationship, we are embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem, but that's the way love goes. That's the drama, the bittersweet and the risk of falling in love.

After all, nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end without us knowing when, without us knowing how, without us even knowing why. <>And we must forget not because we have to but because we have to.

In letting go, sorrows come not as a single spy but in battalion. It seems that everywhere you go, everything<>you do, every song you hear, every turn of your head, every move of your body, every beat of your heart, every blink of your eye and every breath you take always reminds you of him.

I
t's like a stab of a knife, a torture in the night. Funny how the whole world becomes depopulated when only one person is missing. Just imagine, there are billion people on earth and yet it seems you feel lonely and empty without the other.

I
don't know if it's worth calling an art, but letting go entails special skills sparkled with a considerable space and time.

Time heals all wounds but it takes a little push on our part. Acceptance plays a part. Not all love stories end with "...and they live happily ever after."

Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer if it would mean happiness for others. We have to cry to temporarily let go of the pains. Every beginning has its end like every dawn has its dusk. It's something we can't control, something we had to live up.

It's over. He's gone. But life has to go on.

Goodbye doesn't always mean forever.

<>There will always be a place and time where questions will be answered, words will be spoken, letters will be read, and poems will be recited in the night, songs will be sung in harmony, love will be expressed in solitude and promises will be fulfilled.

<>Somewhere. Somehow. Someday.

6:50 PM

What is life all about...
What is my purpose being in this world...
What makes my mood so glooomy...
Why am I here in this world...
Why should I care so much...
Why can't I just be myself...
If I am happy with what I am today...
If I can make myself happier...
If other feels the same way I feels...


Sometimes I just wonder... *sigh*

6:10 AM

Thursday, March 24, 2005


some sound pretty true....

When a GIRL is quiet,
Millions of things are running in her mind.



When a GIRL is not arguing,
She is thinking deeply.



When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions,
She is wondering how long you will be around.



When a GIRL answers "i'm fine" after a few seconds,
She is not at all fine.



When a GIRL stares at you,
She is wondering why you are lying.



When a GIRL lays on your chest,
She is wishing for you to be hers forever.



When a GIRL calls you everyday,
She is seeking for your attention.



When a GIRL wants to see you everyday,
She wants to be pampered.



When a GIRL sms's u everyday,
She wants you to reply at least once.



When a GIRL says I love you,
She means it.



When a GIRL says that she can't live without you,
She has made up her mind that you are her future.



When a GIRL says "i miss you",
No one in this world can miss you more than that

9:20 AM

Tuesday, March 22, 2005


Marriage - Part I

Typical macho man married typical good-looking lady and after the wedding, he laid down the following rules:

"I'll be home when I want, if I want and at what time I want and I don't expect any hassle from you.I expect a great dinner to be on table unless I tell you that I won't be home for dinner. I'll go hunting, fishing, boozing and card-playing when I want with my old buddies and don't you give me a hard time about it. Those are my rules. Any comments?"

His new bride said, "No, that's fine with me. Just understand that there will be sex here at seven o'clock every night ......... whether you're here or not."

(SHE'S GOOD!)
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Marriage (Part II)

Husband and wife had a bitter quarrel on the day of their 40th wedding anniversary! The husband yells, "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads:

"Here Lies My Wife - Cold As Ever "
"Yeah?" she replies. "When you die, I'm getting you a headstone that reads: "Here Lies My Husband Stiff At Last"

(HE ASKED FOR IT!)
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Marriage (Part III)

Husband (a doctor) and his wife are having a fight at the breakfast table. Husband gets up in a rage and says, "And youare no good in bed either," and storms out of the house.

After sometime, he realizes he was nasty and decides to make amends and rings her up. She comes to the phone after many rings, and the irritated husband says, "what took you so long to answer the phone?"

She says, "I was in bed."
"In bed this early, doing what?"
"Getting a second opinion!"

(YEP, HE HAD THAT ONE COMING, TOO!)
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Marriage (Part IV)

A man has six children and is very proud of his achievement. He is so proud of himself, that he starts calling his wife, "Mother of Six" in spite of her objections.

One night, they go to a party. The man decides that it's time to go home and wants to find out if his wife is ready to leave as well. He shouts at the top of his voice, "Shall we go home 'Mother of Six?'

His wife, irritated by her husband's lack of discretion, shouts right back, "Anytime you're ready, Father of Four."

(RIGHT ON, LADY!)
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Marriage (Part V) The Silent Treatment

A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment. Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight. Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, "Please wake me at 5:00 AM." He left it where he knew she would find it.

The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight. Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn't wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed. The paper said, "It is 5:00 AM. Wake up."

Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests.
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7:53 AM

omg!! is monday again... sighz!

well.. there's update for the weekends.. is all the same old thing.. went home sleep after work on saturday.. although not a really long sleep, is just like abt 2hrs.. but is enuff to make me feel more awake.. hehehe

sunday went out very very early in the morning... *yawn* went Guan Yin miao gai gai awhile.. after which i head down to bugis with jennifer.. she's 1 of my gooody pal i know from irc.. suprisingly we become gd gd frenz.. she buy alot of things from bugis.. *LOL* n keep chanting her mum gonna kill her for spending money again.. saw a few items i like.. but din buy.. save $$.. hehe..

after she left, i went woodlands visit fren.. ate a chicky chop from there.. overall taste not bad.. but too saltish ler.. fav is still the french fries on my plate.. see them bz bz.. so i ciao home watch lord of the rings.. i watched tat b4.. but watching it again, makes me understand the story better.. the most sickening part is.. channel 5 split the show into 2 days.. sighz! guess is too long to show it all in a day.. hehe!

tats all i did for my weekends.. Geeesshh.... wat a boring post for weekends.. think wat i post during the weekdays r more interesting... =p

1:17 AM

Saturday, March 19, 2005






Your Brain is 53.33% Female, 46.67% Male



Your brain is a healthy mix of male and female

You are both sensitive and savvy

Rational and reasonable, you tend to keep level headed

But you also tend to wear your heart on your sleeve



What Gender Is Your Brain?

3:29 AM

Thursday, March 17, 2005


i had said that not once, but many times.. always think before doing anything... This is just a simple instruction and she dun seems to be able to understand... why is she so stubborn? when confronted, she gets angry and denies everything. keep arguing her way out...

shouting all over, makes me giddy and headache... the worst part is why am i always the person dedicated to clear up mess other people created? this is not the first time happening... when i refused to help, i am being labeled as "heartless", "selfish", etc... this is not my fault, why should i bear the consequences...?

it's not about the money that i'm unwilling to part.. what really makes me sick is that how come i'm always the one responsible to clean up the shit.. so frustrating...

this is so tiring.. haven't i done enuff for them... sometimes i wonder how much longer can i push myself to move on... at many times, i wished i could just walk out and never turn my head back ever again...

7:43 PM

Wednesday, March 16, 2005


Why is it that when you realize you love someone...You end up loosing them? It's like someone purposely wants your heart to hurt... More than it already does. Why is it that when you're with someone...You break up over the smallest thing.. And at that moment you realize how much they really mean to you? But when you want to get back together...They suddenly give you even more reasons why they can't.

Why do the people who you think are so perfect for you... Always seem to slip away? They are the ones who are the hardest to keep. And when you loose them... You think you can't live without them in your life. But when when you think you are finally over them and you can move on...You hear their voice just one more time and fall for them all over again.

How come they are the ones that are on your mind when you are with someone else? You dont expect it and you don't do it on purpose. But you just suddenly think of them. Most people would say they are your destiny...But if they are meant to be with you, then why did you break up in the first place?

Love acts in all different kinds of weird ways.You never know when you will meet that one person who will be the one for you. And if they will ever slowly slip out of your arms forever... You will never be able to bear the pain...

10:26 AM

just done a quiz... and this is the results.. seems to be true in some ways..

dark girl
You have an impenitrable soul. No one can really
reach you at all or much. You don't like
people, you also almost act dead. You don't
care what people think and your the girl/ guy
that people say 'you're in our grade! I've
never seen you before.' You are in a lot of
pain in life so you really don't care about
anything but you feel pity for people who try
and try but always fail. You wonder how people
can act in such a way.


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8:57 AM


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1:42 AM

Tuesday, March 15, 2005


*yawn* is monday again.. managed to grab 3 hrs sleep last night.. guess is not too bad.. hehehe..

sat after work, suppose to go down to suntec and visit my fren at her booth in IT show.. but i din.. hehehe! sorrie gal.. i'm too tired.. so i just tabao lunch to my hungry sister, bought movies tickets and went home to grab some sleep.. after i woke up, went out loiter ard.. been walking aimless for almost 2hrs+.. shops closed already so just window shop while waiting for movie to start..

watched Hostage.. starred by Bruce Willis.. quite a good show and i like it.. is brillant when he's trying hard to save both the victims and his family at the same time.. is rated NC16 if i'm not wrong, but not much of violence.. dun understand wats the rating for.. *LOL* anyway overall i give it 7/10.

i was at home on sunday, din do anything much.. sit ard and day dream most of my time.. tats all, i have nothing much to update for the weekends.. time to get back to work.. *yawn*

1:39 AM

Saturday, March 12, 2005


what kinda person r you? do u live by ur mind or u live by ur heart?
well, i guess i'm more of a Mind person. whatever i do, i do it in the most rationale and most practical way.

ppl ard me have this saying "u r too rationale to extend that u r cold blooded". i guess is true. not tat i dun wanna show the true side of me, but bad experiences teaches me not to. those experiences taught me to build a wall ard myself to protect myself.

but there's 1 issue, my heart speaks louder than my mind. the more i wanna push the voice away, the louder it becomes. i dun like this kinda feeling because this is so not myself. tis feeling makes me feel lost and stranded. for months, this cant be solve. pls pls.. some1 show me a sign. what should i do..

*you asked me why i am sad, i shook my head, how can i ever tells you that the reason for my saddnes is you, when all we can be is friends...*

lastly, i recovered... wound had sealed up.. no more medication.. no more changing of dressing..
total recovery period for a 2 cm wound = 39 days *faint* know what? i'm not going to let myself go thru this torture ever again..

10:36 AM

Friday, March 11, 2005


Cold in the earth—and the deep snow piled above thee,
Far, far removed, cold in the dreary grave!
Have I forgot, my only Love, to love thee,
Severed at last by Time's all-severing wave?

Now, when alone, do my thoughts no longer hover
Over the mountains, on that northern shore,
Resting their wings where heath and fern-leaves cover
That noble heart for ever, ever more?

Cold in the earth, and fifteen wild Decembers
From those brown hills have melted into spring:
Faithful indeed is the spirit that remembers
After such years of change and suffering!

Sweet Love of youth, forgive if I forget thee,
While the world's tide is bearing me along:
Sterner desires and other hopes beset me,
Hopes which obscure, but cannot do thee wrong!

No later light has lightened up my heaven;
No second morn has ever shone for me:
All my life's bliss from thy dear life was given,
All my life's bliss is in the grave with thee.

But when the days of golden dreams had perished,
And even Despair was powerless to destroy,
Then did I learn how existence could be cherished,
Strengthened, and fed without the aid of joy;

Then did I check the tears of useless passion,
Weaned my young soul from yearning after thine;
Sternly denied its burning wish to hasten
Down to that tomb already more than mine.

And even yet I dare not let it languish,
Dare not indulge in Memory's rapturous pain;
Once drinking deep of that divinest anguish,
How could I seek the empty world again?

by Emily Bronte

6:31 AM

Thursday, March 10, 2005


Tree. Leaf. Wind - Part I : Tree

The reason I'm called tree is because I'm good at painting trees. Overtime I start to use a tree on the right hand corner as a trademark for all my watercolors painting.

I have dated 5 gals when I was in Pre-U. There's one gal who I love a lot but never dare go after her. She doesn't have a pretty face, doesn't have a good figure, and doesn't have outstanding charm. She is just a very ordinary gal. I like her. I really like her. Like her innocent, like her frankness. Like her cuteness, like her intelligence and her fragility.

Reason for not going after her is because I felt somebody so ordinary like her is not a good match for me. I'm also afraid that after we are together all the good feelings will vanish. I'm also afraid other's gossips will hurt her. I felt that if she's my gal, she will be mine ultimately and I don't have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her accompany me for 3 years.

She watches me chase after gals, and I have made her heart cry for 3 years. She wants to be a good actress and I'm a very demanding director. When I kissed my 2nd girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smile and say "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes were swollen like a walnut. I purposely didn't want to think about what causes her to cry but laugh at her the whole day.

When everybody go back home, she was alone crying in the classroom. She didn't know that I returned from soccer training to get something. I watch her cry for an hour or so. My 4th girlfriend didn't like her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on her character she's not the type that will start off the quarrel. But I still sided with my girlfriend. I shouted at her and her eyes were filled shocked. I didn't care about her feelings and walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she still laughs and joke with me like nothing has ever happened. I know that she's very hurt but she didn't know that my heart ache is as bad as hers.

When I broke up with my 5th girlfriend, I asked her out. After going out for a day, I told her that I have something to tell her. She told me that coincidentally, she has something to tell me too. I told her about my break up and she told me about her getting together.

I know who the guy is. He has been going after her for quite a while. A very cute guy, full of energy, lively and interesting. His pursuit for her has been the talk of the school. I can't show her my heart ache but could only smile and congratulate her.

When I reach home, the heart ache is so strong that I can't stand it. It's like a heavy weighted stone on my chest. I couldn't breath. Wanted to shout but can't.Tears rolled down and I broke down and cry. How many times have I seen her cry for the man that doesn't acknowledge her presence too?During graduation, I read a sms in my hp. It was send 10 days ago when I broke down and cry. I haven't read it since then.It says "Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?"

Tree. Leaf. Wind - Part II : Leaf

During Pre-U days, I like to collect leaves. Why? Because I felt that for a leaf to leave the tree she has been relying on for so long it takes a lot of courage.

During the 3 years of Pre-U, I was on very close terms with a guy. Not BGR kind but as buddy kind. But when he had his 1st girlfriend, I learnt a feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. The sourness in the heart can't be described by using a lemon. It's like 100 rotten sour lemons. Sourness to the extreme limit.

They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hide my strong sense of happiness. But after a month, he got together with another gal. I like him and I know he like me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he loves me why he doesn't want to make the first move? Whenever he had a new girlfriend, my heart would hurt. Time after time, my heart was hurt. I begin to suspect that this is a one sided love. If he doesn't like me, why does he treat me so well? It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend.

Liking a person is very heart wrenching. I can know his likes, his habits. But his feelings towards me I can never figure out. You can't expect me a gal to ask him right? Despite that, I still want to be by his side. Care for him, accompany him, and love him. Hoping that one fine day, he will come and love me.

It's like waiting for his phone call every night, wanting him to send me sms. I know that no matter how busy he is, he will make time for me. Because of this, I waited for him.The 3 years were the hardest to go through and I really want to give up. Sometimes, I wonder should I continue waiting.

The pain and hurt, the dilemma accompanies me for 3 years. Till the end of my 3rd year, a 2nd year junior begins to go after me. Everyday he pursuit me relentlessly. From outright rejection to a point in time when I felt that I'm willing to let him have a small footing in my heart. He's like a warm and gentle wind, trying to blow a leaf away from the tree.

In the end, I realized that I didn't want to give this wind a small footing in my heart. I know this wind will bring this badly battered leave far away and better land. Finally I left tree, but the tree only smile and didn't ask me to stay.Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay

Tree. Leaf. Wind - Part III : Wind

Because I like a gal called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree so I have to be a gust wind. A wind that will blow her away.When I first met her, it was 1 month after I transfer to the new school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors and me playing soccer.

During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone or with her friends looking at him. When he talks with gals there's jealousy in her eyes. When he looked at her, there's a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit. Just like she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn't appear. I felt something is wrong. I can't explain the feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior scolding her. Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a note and gave to her. She was surprised.S he looked at me, smiled and accepts the note.

The next day, she appeared and passes me a note and left. "Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away." "It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It's because leaf never want to leave tree." I replied her note with this statement and slowly she started to talk to me and accept my presents and phone calls. I know that the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one day I will make her like me.

Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times.Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win her over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to her. Although I know she will try to divert but I still bear a small ray of hope. Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend.

I didn't hear any reply from her over the phone. I asked "What are you doing? How come you didn't want to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head.""Ah?" I couldn't believe my ears. "I'm nodding my head" She replied loudly.I hang up the phone, quickly changed and took a taxi and rush to her place and press her door bell. During the moment when she opens the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay?


4:49 PM

Tuesday, March 08, 2005


What is diazepam?


Diazepam is in a class of drugs called benzodiazepines. Diazepam affects chemicals in the brain that may become unbalanced and cause anxiety, seizures, and muscle spasms.

Diazepam is used to relieve anxiety, nervousness, and tension associated with anxiety disorders. It is also used to treat certain types of seizure disorders and muscle spasms.

Diazepam may also be used for purposes other than those listed in this medication guide.

What is Xanax?


Xanax is in a class of drugs called benzodiazepines. Xanax affects chemicals in the brain that may become unbalanced and cause anxiety.

Xanax is used to relieve anxiety, nervousness, and tension associated with anxiety disorders. Xanax is also used to treat panic disorders.

Xanax may also be used for purposes other than those listed in this medication guide.

*Some of the medications which I used to take. Geesssh.... Insomnia made a comeback. I need a good night sleep badly. Swinging betweewn the decision to get back on medication or find other alternatives to sleep.*

7:28 PM

The story goes that two friends were walking through the desert. During some point of the journey they had an agrument, and one friend slapped the other in the face.

The only who got slapped was hurt, but without saying anything, wrote in the sand: "Today my best friend slapped me."

They keep on walking until they found a oasis, where they decided to take a bath. The one who had been slapped got stuck in the mire and started drowning, but his friend saved him.

After he recovered from the near drowning, he wrote on a stone: "Today my best friend saved my life."

The friend who had slapped and saved his best friend asked him, "After I hurt you, you wrote in the sand and now you write on a stone. Why?"

The other friend replied: "When someone hurts us we should write it down in sand where winds of forgiveness can erase it away. But when someone do something good for us, we must engrave it in stone where no wind can erase it."

Morale: Learn to write your hurt in the sand and to carve your benefits in stone. They say i takes a minute to find a special person. an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but an entire life to forget them.

Take the time to live.

*I guess I should head down to the sand and start writing. But I wonder if there'e enough space on the sand for me to write not...*

1:51 AM

Sunday, March 06, 2005


Can you feel it? The feeling of love...

The inital stage of love is always so sweet, always feels like there's another person by your side accompanying you, one more person to share your burden. Finally you are no longer alone, at least you know that there's a someone out there missing you, thinking of you.. No matter what happens, so long both of you are together, that's all you need.

But slowly, as time passes by, both of you get to know each other better, you started to see the weakness and bad side of your partner. So, problems arise one after another. You started to feel fustrated, tired, and you even wanna run away from your relationship. There's a saying "Love is like picking up a stone, always wanting to find a stone of your own, a stone that belongs to you only".

But how do you know when is the time where you finally find that stone? If your partner suits you, do you suit your partner?

Actually, Love is like polishing a stone. Maybe when you just picked it up, you are not very satisfy with it. However, many things can change, so long you have the heart to change and put in effort to change. Rather than going somewhere else to pick up another stone, why not try polishing the stone you have already own?

Many people thought that a person becomes lazy because Love have faded. But in actual fact, is laziness which took over a person, which results in the fading of Love.

4:59 PM

Think back to the day when you first laid eyes on him. You found yourself charmed by the way he talks,the way he dresses himself to show off his best features and theway he embraces life with his laughter. It seemed as if a mysterious "chemistry effect"has suddenly developed to draw you closer to him.

You two then began to meet regularly,and you discover more things that you admire about him. His clever ideas, his healthy values and the way he stands up for you when others doubt you. You find yourself thinking of him not just as a normal friend, but a very good friend. It is often during this period that a boy and a gal will start thinking of bringing their friendship to another level. After all, the kind of wonderful experience you have between each other can only become even better if it develops into a romantic relationship. In other words, the feeling is really unique -no one else seems able to replace him in your heart.

So both of you agree to become an item and work even harder on the relationship. You "graduate" to become a couple, and are the envy of the sea of singles.

When You Forget The Fundamentals
However, at some point in your relationship,you forgot how it all began. You start to take your partner for granted. Why can't he laugh in a more manly like manner? Why doesn't he dress himself more trendily? Why must he assert his views and point out your silly mistakes? Is he really the one foryou? To be fair to yourself and to him, take sometime to reflecton your "love memory".

The "lovememory" contains all the reasons that you fell in love with him right from Day One. It contains rarely accessed snippets of how your life has changed since meeting and loving him. Pre-dating days, did you heap compliments on him for the brave way he spoke her mind on bullies and snobs? You probably did. Did you like him unusual fashion sense that makes him stand out from the crowd? Right-o. So why are you criticising or finding fault with him now that sim is your boyfriend? Because you have forgotten the fundamentals of love, like so many of us. You have forgotten the reasons you admired him during the friendship phase.

Instead, once you went steady, you put your "love memory" in cold storage. As his girlfriend, you take up a new set of demands and expectations about him. These new ideas are not necessarily better; they could put your relationship at risk.

The Secret Of Strong Relationships
A healthy relationship, like learning to walk properly, follows a step-by-step development. You can't possibly become part of a couple if you aren't friends in the first place. Ok, I know some of us break the rule and plunge straight into whirl wind courtship, but how many of those couples can go the distance? Couplehood works well when there is something you like about her (andvice versa), and I'm not referring to merely the physical aspects. So whenever your relationship hits a rocky path, don't give up without checking on your "love memory". Rediscover the reasons why you fell in love with her, and watch your relationship flourish with a newf ound vigour. "Follow the rule of love and enjoy it, asloving someone is a wonderful and sweet experience."

4:12 PM

Saturday, March 05, 2005


Thank god!! My uncle is okie. He was discharged last night with some minor injuries. He scares all of us big time. Today after work, I will be going over to his house. Just to visit him and make sure he is alrite. I can never be sure till i see him with my own eyes.

omg~ he lives in Jurong *faint*

2:19 AM

Thursday, March 03, 2005


There was an accident this evening.. A car and a bus collided.. The front part of the car was in a total wreck.. The bus only suffered some slight scratches..

It was a male driver.. His face was bleeding.. His doter saw the accident on her way back home and rushed to the scene.. Her mum was at work, and she called her on her moblie.. Her mum rushed back home after hearing the news..The ambluance came and sent the driver to hospital.. His doter accompanied him along, while her mum stayed behind and wait for the tow truck to arrive..

The tow truck came and his mum went to the hospital with her brother-in-law.. At the A&E Department, the driver started to vomit.. Most probably could be suffering from some concussions.. Till now, no futher news from the driver's family.. Hope he will be fine..

That driver is my uncle.... Always be extra careful on the roads. Drive safe, Ride safe.

10:48 PM

recieved the letter today.. depressed... this is the hardest part of life to bear.. the more u hope.. the deeper u fall..

but still.. i will try again..

4:21 PM

Watched Hitch yesterday.. is kinda romance plus comedy type of show.. not really my kinda movie.. hehehe!! but anyway, tickets are free, so why not rite?

Hitch is pretty much predictable... story not twisting here and there.. straightforward.. Hitch dun really leave a great impact in my memory.. i guess is becos my memory is failing big time... there are a few funny parts in the shows.. i remembered there's 1 scene where Will Smith got a food allergy and it actually made me laff.. just wonder i laff becos all the rest are also laff or izzit becos is really funny.. hmmm.. oh well.. just a movie.. not necessary to think so much.. overall, is just a not bad show.. watch it only if it's free... *whistle*

1:17 PM

Wednesday, March 02, 2005


hmm... this is my first time doing this blog thingy.. hope this is not like san fen zhoung re du.. hehe.. i dun understand why is blog getting so popular.. n so many ppl r fanatic over it.. *shake head*

i guess is not bad for a first timer.. shall edit again if i ever have the time... only got knows when..

sleeping problemt hits me again.. got to go try to hit the bed n start counting sheeps, stars, or even stare ceiling.. whichever that will works...

5:33 PM

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